Devil’s Advocate – The Bathroom Bill

If permitted, I would like, just this once, to speak for the other side.  You know the side, the ones who are always being told ‘not to say, feel, or thing anything that is not politically correct’, to ‘put up and shut, or ‘be an adult’, or ‘stop letting your petty fears get in the say of progress’.  That side.

I started hearing about the Bathroom Bill a few days ago and was intrigued.  Mostly, because if you’ve read my other blog, mystalkingblog, you know that I’m a victim of stalking and that the people stalking me viciously harangue me every time I go to use the bathroom.  And I’m neither Gay or Transsexual.

What I’d like to do with the post is give Transsexuals some insight into the everyday common heterosexual mind.

First off, let me say that from my point of view, the Transsexual Community is trying to move faster than society’s notion of what is right or wrong.  We are only now beginning to accept Gays as equals and normals into our work places, Churches, and homes.  And just when we are coming to grips with the idea that, yes, people can be born Gay, you’re asking us to take another detour off normal.

And for most of us, that detour is really hard to take.  Mostly because ninety percent of us ‘normals’ don’t like what we see in the mirror when we look at ourselves.

Just ask the fat girl who looks in the mirror and wants to see a thin girl.  And don’t you think for a second that she doesn’t look into that mirror and feels with her whole soul that she was born to be THIN!.  Should she call herself a Transskinny and walk around in clothes to small for her?

And what about people born Black but feel that they are a White person in a Black person’s body. Should they call themselves Transracial.  And don’t say it doesn’t happen.  Just a year or so ago, we as a nation were all upset and talking about the White woman who said she felt she was a Black person born in a White person’s body and went so far as to become the president of the Spokane, Washington Chapter of the NAACP.  And we were ALL commenting on how ridiculous that sounded.

                                                      Rachel Dolezal

Now, as far as The Bathroom Bill goes, the first image that popped into my head was that of a big tall hairy guy in a dress.  I was not thinking pervert or child rapist or anything like that.  But the image of a man in a dress was the first thing that came to my mind.  And I’m sure it’s the same for most Americans.

What I’m trying to say here is that I don’t think that you’ve done enough PR work to get most of the country on your side.

And from one Transracial (I identify as an upper class very wealthy white woman) Transskinny (a sleek size 8) who has learned to love her body (Black and a size 24) the way it is, good luck to you on your journey to the bathroom.

Until then, most of the country would appreciate it if you’d use the bathroom for the gender you physically are until after you’ve completed your gender reassignment surgery.  And for God’s sake get a better spokesperson than Caitlin Jenner.

 

By
Eliza D. Ankum
Author of
Flight 404
Ruby Sanders
Jared Anderson
OneThreeThirteen – Master Of The Day Of Judgment
Dancing With The Fat Woman
STALKED! By Voices
https://stalkedbyvoices.wordpress.com/2011/12/04/my-stalking-blog-fear/

 

 

Happy Valentine Day – Fifty Shades of Grey

 

Tonight is a big night. It’s Valentine Day and the premier of the movie ‘Fifty Shades of Grey.’
As a writer, I am beyond green with envy over the success of E. L. James’ novel by the same name.

 

So much so, that in my last novel, ‘One Three Thirteen – Master of the Day of Judgment,’ I actually wrote some sex scenes, which I didn’t do in my novel ‘Ruby Sanders’ (lots of complaints about that). It seems sex sells. And to be a top selling author these days, you almost certainly have to include it.

But when I was asked whether or not, I’d go see the movie, my resounding answer was NO.

No, because I know what it’s like to be stalked and it’s anything but sexually exciting.

And secondly, because if a guy ever beat my butt thinking that would make me hot, he’d have a real surprise coming. The next day I’d be waiting outside his house or apartment, and when I got the chance, I’d run over him with my car. I’d stop long enough to get out and ask, “Did that get your juices going, honey? If not, I can back up.”

 

A Tiny Kitten With A Big Mouth (and car)

By
Eliza D. Ankum
Author of
Flight 404
Ruby Sanders
STALKED! By Voices
One Three Thirteen – Master Of the Day of Judgment
https://dancingwiththefatwoman.wordpress.com

 

Cliff Huxtable, A Rapist?

The Women

I wrote the following post back in October of 2014, but decided to use it again with the above picture.  The only thing I’d add is, “how sad to reach a time in your life when you should be graciously accepting bouquets of roses from your peers and instead you’re being pelted with rotten eggs.    Job 13:26

Bill Cosby. This afternoon, I was asked what I thought about the allegations against Bill Cosby and I answered, that I’d heard them before around the time that his son Ennis was killed. There was so much speculation over who might have killed Bill Cosby’s son and why, that the Press dug deep into both father and son’s past. And that is when I first heard about the rape allegations against Bill Cosby. Continue reading

Floyd Mayweather’s Comment on Women’s Clothing

 

Really? This for dinner out with family in a restaurant

Concerning Floyd Mayweater’s comment. I don’t thing Mr. Mayweather was speaking to any rapist mentally. No, I think he was referring to that perfect storm of bad taste that happened on Father’s Day. It was HOT and a holiday. And a lot of women, skinny, fat, young, and old, took that as an opportunity to show a LOT OF SKIN! There was very little modesty being exhibited. There were times on Sunday that I wanted to say to a woman that, ‘you know the designer of that piece of clothing never intended it to be worn outside the home.’ Ladies, please more Michelle Obama and less Rihanna. #elizabook.

http://elizabooks.wordpress.com

My Wedding

For the first time in what seems like decades, I’ve been invited to not one, but two weddings.  And that got me thinking.  If I hadn’t had The Stalkers in my life what might have my wedding looked like.  So I went out to the cloud and pulled some pictures that would have made my perfect day.

The dress

I love this dress, it’s so Grace Kelly sort of like Kate Middleton’s

The wedding cake

Would have a hard time deciding between lemon curd and almond

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The groom’s cake

Totally fudge!!!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Now where shall we have this perfect day?

Or should I have said night?

Good food will get guests in the party mood.

 

Now, how about some music!

 

 

Oh! I think I forgot something.  What could it be?  I know.  A GROOM!

Of the few, and I do mean few, the only man I’d still consider marrying after all these years is ……………………….

But he has nothing to fear, The Stalkers are still very much with me.

A Tiny Kitten With A Big Mouth

By
Eliza Ankum
Author of
Flight 404
Ruby Sanders
STALKED! By Voices
http://onethreethirteen.wordpress.com

Donald Sterling – One Final Word

To me the Donald Sterling controversy only further emphasizes what I’ve known for a long time, ‘Money makes the world go round’, or ‘money talks’.

Everything was ‘seemingly’ fine in Donald Sterling’s world until he, a billionaire, insulted a few hundred millionaires. And then all hell broke loose.

And then the media circled above and around him like a bunch of buzzards and began picking his bones clean. But, where were they (the media and his players, coaches, and friends) when the real problem with Donald Sterling began manifesting itself.

Someone should have noticed a few months back that there was something mentally and physically wrong with Donald Sterling. When a man of Donald Sterling’s wealth and fame begins having a very, very indiscreet PUBLIC AFFAIR without written and/or verbal permission from his wife, especially without have a prenup, it’s a clear sign that he’s not working with a full deck. And his doctors and friends should have caught that.

And I for one, would like to know how Donald Sterling treated, and interacted with the Clippers’ Black players before those tapes were made public.

And as for Ms. Stiviano, I hope she has some job skills other than the obvious. And I hope Donald Sterling’s wife succeeds in taking back the cars, furs, and money. Ms. Stiviano clearly overstepped. What happened to the rules of being the ‘other woman.’

 

A Tiny Kitten With A Big Mouth

By
Eliza Ankum
Author of
Flight 404
Ruby Sanders
STALKED! By Voices
http://onethreethirteen.wordpress.com